Question: You’ve said that caregiving is a continuum. Can you explain what you mean by that?
Answer: “That is the message I always try to give young women (I do this at women’s college graduations all the time): first of all, don’t think that there is a period of your life when you’re a caregiver…When your children are small. When your parents are old, whatever it is. What women do is take care. That’s what we do. We do a lot of other stuff, too, but what our mission on this earth is, as far as I’m concerned (and I get a lot of argument on it, but that’s tough) is taking care. Sometimes, it is taking care of the planet or the library or the cultural center or whatever it is. But usually, even if that is what a woman’s focus is, she’s also taking care of human beings. And it’s not necessarily just of your own children when they’re small or when they’re having problems along the way or of your own parents.” – Cokie Roberts
I appreciate visualizing a different view. It is one that I embrace and will reiterate.
Our mission on this earth is taking care.
You can read more of Cokie Roberts writings in We Are Our Mothers’ Daughters