Russell Wilson’s Kindness Leaves A Mark

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The title of the article …. Russell Wilson’s Kindness Leaves A Mark…. we should all ask~ what mark will we leave.  It’s easy to get consumed in our daily lives but I hope we all take time out to better the lives of others- on a super bowl level!

NEW YORK — One day in 2009, Russell Wilson found himself addressing hundreds of students at St. Timothy’s School in Raleigh, N.C.

We Can ALL do great things!

We Can ALL do great things!

The topic was bullying.

At the time, Wilson was the starting quarterback for NC State and a first-team All-ACC selection. Maura Horton, the wife of Wolfpack offensive line coach Don Horton, had invited Wilson to speak at St. Timothy’s because the couple’s daughter attended the school and a friend of the family who worked there wanted to be proactive in starting a dialogue about the harmful effects of bullying.

Courtesy of Maura Horton

Russell Wilson, with the Hortons’ daughters, was invited by Maura Horton to speak to schoolchildren about bullying, which he admitted he had been guilty of.

They all figured the amiable Wilson was the perfect guy to stand up and talk about doing the right thing. What they didn’t know was that he also had a confession to make.

Turns out, Wilson had been a bit of a bully himself.

It sounds hard to believe for anyone who has followed Wilson’s ascension to football’s biggest stage. On Sunday, the 5-foot-11, second-year pro will lead the Seattle Seahawks against future Hall of Famer Peyton Manning and the Denver Broncos in Super Bowl XLVIII.

But Maura Horton remembers watching all the kids that day at St. Timothy’s as they listened with rapt attention to the young man whose ease and openness allowed him to immediately connect with his audience.

“We were surprised to learn what he said,” Horton told espnW this week. “Russell doesn’t seem like someone who ever could have behaved that way. But because of his honesty, the kids were blown away by him.”

Wilson told the students that when he was younger he would sometimes be mean to his classmates on the playground because he thought that would make the “cool kids” like him more. It took a teacher pulling him aside one day for Wilson to realize there was nothing cool about taunting someone.

“You don’t want to act like that,” the teacher said, reminding Wilson that being good at sports wasn’t a free pass for bad behavior. The message: Sports are fleeting, but words and deeds are permanent.

“Your actions stay with you forever,” Wilson told the students, “so you want to make sure those actions are something you’re proud of in the future.”

The Horton family knows a thing or two about Wilson and meaningful actions. To them, he is a man whose awareness and sensitivity changed their lives.

About a year ago, Maura launched Magna Ready, a business inspired by an interaction between her husband and Wilson after NC State lost a road game during the 2009 season. Don Horton suffers from Parkinson’s disease, although he had not told anyone on the team back then. Because of media obligations, Wilson was one of the last players getting dressed that day, and he noticed that Horton was struggling to button his shirt. The team bus was waiting outside, so the sophomore quarterback stopped what he was doing and, without saying a word, buttoned his coach’s shirt.

When Don arrived home that night, he told his wife what had happened. He confessed his embarrassment and felt distraught that a layer of his independence had been stripped away. But an idea was born: magnetic buttons for dress shirts.

Maura Horton sent Wilson a handwritten thank-you note after hearing about his interaction with her husband. She says she believes Wilson’s awareness in the locker room was heightened by what was happening in his own life as he watched his father’s health decline. Harrison Wilson III died in June 2010 of complications from diabetes. Russell then transferred to Wisconsin after his junior season.

“Most players are focused on themselves after a loss,” Maura Horton said. “It was just a brief moment, but his dad was sick at the time, and I think Russell had a higher sense; he was just one of those guys who got it.”

Last summer, the Hortons and their two daughters visited Wilson at his passing academy in his hometown of Richmond, Va. At one point, the conversation turned to hopes and goals, and Wilson said he wants to win four Super Bowls. Unsure why he picked that number, Maura Horton went home and did a Google search, learning that if Wilson someday wins four titles he will tie Terry Bradshaw and Joe Montana as the quarterbacks with the most Super Bowl rings.

During Wednesday’s media availability in New Jersey, Wilson discussed his pursuit of greatness.

“If someone tells me no, I’m going to try to do the best I can to prove them wrong — more for myself than anyone else,” he said. “I’m a self-motivator. I believe that God has given me a sense of leadership to be able to motivate other people, but also myself. I want to be the best one day, and I’m not going to shy away from that. I’ve got a long ways to go, but I think, to be honest with you, God has put me here for a particular reason.”

The way the Hortons see it, Wilson’s legacy is already set.

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Just Being Is Fun

Sometimes we dwell on the changes we have undergone and are scared of what lies ahead but because of these two little ones we opt for a different path.

I never lose sight of the fact that just being is fun. ~ Katharine Hepburn

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Quote is by Katharine Hepburn – Many know her from her amazing breath of work on-screen.  Others know her for having Essential Tremor as well.

Essential Tremor is a neurological condition that causes a rhythmic trembling of the hands, head, voice, legs or trunk. Some even feel an internal shake. It is often confused with Parkinson’s disease although ET is eight times more common and affects an estimated 10 million Americans alone.

A few great resources for ET are  International Essential Tremor Foundation and Tremor Action Network

Another quote by Katharine Hepburn

“Now to squash a rumor. No, I don’t have Parkinson’s. I inherited my shaking head from my grandfather Hepburn. I discovered that whiskey helps stop the shaking. Problem is, if you’re not careful, it stops the rest of you too. My head just shakes, but I promise you, it ain’t gonna fall off!”.

Different Views

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Often there is a struggle trying to communicate what the journey with a life changing diagnosis such as Parkinson’s is like…. to quantify or elucidate. We all experience it differently, through our own unique lens.

I know that we can not control our children’s outlook but only help them navigate.  I have learned however, to not try to define or categorize their concerns, questions or fears but to try to see the light through their ever shifting vantage point.

Some times it’s a close up and it is all you or they can see

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Close ups provide perspective.

and other times the lens is wider.

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Panoramic views provide hope.

Every journey is different.  Every moment, every decision, every prayer.

We all experience things in our own time and our own ways.

Through the pilgrimage you will truly LOVE the ones who may not be able to see all the stones on your path but can still visualize the panoramic view of your trek.

Broad Shoulders

I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders.

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I ask not for an easier path, but for stronger feet.

My Path

I ask not for weaker enemies, but a stronger me.

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Let life do with us what it wants, but let us be strong enough to handle it.

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See What Love Can DO!

2013 is closed! On the books and recorded.

Our year is best summed up with the lyrics of an Eric Clapton song

Because

~When you tell your story

~ Make sure your story’s right

~ Every little single word is true

~ See what love can do

I have chronicled a video highlight of our year here.

(watch here) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTXIHvgMOVg

There were many times our world felt like to was falling apart~ but hopefully we will continue to smile and pull through! We won’t let Parkinson’s compromise our happiness.

Thanks to all who helped make 2013 a memorable year!  Change will happen!

When your world, it starts to fall apart Look deep within, within your lonely heart. Do your best my friend, try and understand Its only you, pull yourself through.

When your world, it starts to fall apart
Look deep within, within your lonely heart.
Do your best my friend, try and understand
Its only you, pull yourself through.

See What Love Can Do ~ Eric Clapton

When your world, it starts to fall apart
Look deep within, within your lonely heart
Do your best my friend, try and understand
It’s only you, pull yourself through

When you tell your story
Make sure your story’s right
Every little single word is true

See what love can do
See what love can do

When the words are in the music, the music is the song
The world would be so happy, if we’d all just get along
I want to see it, a smile on every face

So when we tell our story
Make sure that it’s right
Every single word is true

See what love can do
See what love can do
See what love can do

So when you tell your story, honey
Make sure that it’s right
I finally proved the message true

I see what love can do
See what love can do
See what love can do
See what love can do

When we sing the story
Make sure your song is right
Finally proved the message true

See what love can do
Oh, see what love can do
See what love can do
See what love can do

See what love can do
See what love can do
See what love can do
See what love can do

Read more: Eric Clapton – See What Love Can Do Lyrics | MetroLyrics